May be bless by Allah
Really hope that my sharing can give benefits to others
Actually that was the aim why this blog has been created
What is the meaning behind that?
A lot of people love to use or to apply
Western quotes to show or the describe the meaning of frienship
How about me?
I will say NO
There is difference between Western style and Islam rules
Why style ? Why rules ?
Islam seems really SHADID
NO absolutely NO !
Rules ? because You and I can't change it sesuka hati
Style ? of course can be change because You have Your own style rite ?!
Allah guides us how to control our attitude between opposite gender
You as a woman should be TEGAS rite ?
Same goes to man
Okay friends let me share with you about some hadeeth and verses from Quran about friendship
Quran [ 43 : 67 ]
Quran [ 3 : 103 ]
Ibn Abbas (r.a) said " No one may true faith except by this ( building relationship for Allah sake),even if his prayers and fasts are many people have come to build their relationship around the concerns of the world, but it will not benefit them any way "
Allah (swt) says : " Those who have mutual love for the sake of My Glory will have pillars of light and will be envied by the prophets and martyrs " ( Sahih Tirmidzi )
Prophet Muhammad (saw) said : " You shall not enter paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another. Shall I not guide you to a thing? Which when done, will make you love one another : Spread the greeting of Salam amongst yourselves" - Sahih Muslim
" You will see the believers in their mutual kindness,love and sympathy just like one body. When a limb complains, the whole body responds to it with wakefulness and fever " - Sahih Muslim and Bukhari
The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said - " A Muslim is a brother to a Muslim : Neither he wrongs him nor hands him over ( to another ), and whosoever comes in need of his brother, Allah comes his need ; and whosoever removes a calamity of a Muslim, Allah will removes one calamity from his calamities on day of judgement and whosoever conceals the faults of a Muslim, Allah will conceal his sins on the day of judgement " - Sahih Bukhari and Muslim.